A large percentage of my work is with couples. In doing so I've come to realise that even small amounts of negativity toward each other can lead to contempt and then to the end of all communications, ultimately causing the death of the relationship.
In working with couples, I like to begin by teaching good listening skills, and helping both partners to try to understand what the other is feeling. Hearing each other is the beginning of respect and understanding can open the doors to positivity and new possibilities for the life of the relationship.